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ok so fuck it. let& #39;s have a conversation.
and before I start, no I& #39;m not taking shots at anyone. this is a conversation based off of things I& #39;ve seen on the timeline recently.
I want to talk about lesbians and money when it comes to dating. especially when it comes to people dating masculine presenting women.
I& #39;ve seen a lot of tweets in general, even more so recently, about not dating broke d*kes. about wanting to date a masc woman who can provide for you, themselves, and spoil you with luxury. if that& #39;s what you like, OKAY. but just some things on my mind....
there is a pay gap between men and women first of all. a lot of women aren& #39;t making bread like that. period. masculine or not. period. the data proves that. PERIOD.
on top of that, I have met a lot of masc. women who aren& #39;t able to find "good" jobs off the bat. who have been in situations where they& #39;re barely financially stable on their own. mix that with dating and I mean it& #39;s gotta be crushing to FEEL like you have to provide.
when women were never MEANT to be providers. these women want cis niggas& #39; money because they make more money in GENERAL lmao and most of them be dumb so they& #39;ll spend the bread.
masc. women shouldn& #39;t be held up to the same financial standards as men at all. AT ALL. AT ALLLLL.
that& #39;s my TL;DR.
I& #39;m not saying this to change anyone& #39;s mind or nothing like that. it& #39;s just interesting to see. that& #39;s all. that& #39;s all I have to say lmfao.
that& #39;s my TL;DR.
I& #39;m not saying this to change anyone& #39;s mind or nothing like that. it& #39;s just interesting to see. that& #39;s all. that& #39;s all I have to say lmfao.
if you HAVE money and you want to ball out on the women you date then do it. if you& #39;re dating someone who likes that and you CAN do it then do it. I personally don& #39;t want it to be the STANDARD. does that make sense?
also note that this isn& #39;t just because of twitter. back when I was young and broke, I felt like I HAD to provide. like I HAD to take my girl on dates, had to pay for XYZ, had to do a lot of shit. but I was POOR lmfaooo. and that shit just made me sad.
