i think some lgbt people don& #39;t realize how different issues are depending on what your identity is. like makeup means something completely different to a gnc gay man and a gnc lesbian yknow? so the issue of "makeup is an art form" vs "makeup is an opressive expectation" exists
and like, neither answer is wrong! but both sides need to examine it and see it from the other& #39;s pov before immediately dismissing the idea that it could be hurtful/expressive