expose thread on @/kimljiwoo

BEFORE I GET INTO IT their pronouns are they/them please do not misgender them. misgendering is never okay. also i myself am neurodivergent (autusm and adhd/add)

okay so basically the original tweet was them asking if they could use a xenogender that was made for only neurodivergent people (loonagender) if they were SELF DIAGNOSED WITH ADHD. yeah, big red flags. self diagnosing is NOT okay. ever. no matter the circumstances or situation.

here's the thread (they deleted all of their tweets) https://twitter.com/yoonchanei/status/1284268109625462785

the fact that they don't even know if they're neurodivergent or not is already fucked up. i told them no they couldn't identify with a xenogender for only neurodivergent people because they don't even know if they're neurodivergent, and you know what they did? completely ignored

me, someone who has been diagnosed with adhd, and tweeted this. what the fuck goes through your head that makes you think that this is okay?? i'm genuinely so angry and upset and i feel so fucking invalidated but they don't even care

here's the creator of loonagender's tweet. he supports self diagnosing too btw. i don't know if he is also self diagnosed but if he is i'm going to fucking scream @/milfseuIs

they're also tweeting/rting shit like this which shows that they don't care.

i've never felt so belittled and invalidated before. i genuinely feel so fucking angry and upset and they don't even care. SELF DIAGNOSING IS NOT OKAY. it doesn't matter if you can't get a proper diagnosis, it's so harmful. for them to completely ignore me is just disgusting+

and disrespectful to me and others with adhd. do not belittle us to just a few symptoms that you found on google. IT'S NOT OKAY. EVER.