i’ve seen the excuse “it’s a lie, management tweeted it” in that case, you believe that your fave would allow such a heavy lie to publicly be told to millions of his fans, a lie about his sexuality (something so personal to one)? and he would continue lying about it for 6 years?
so assuming that L is, in fact, straight (taking into account that he also denied all rumours about a secret relationship) and you do support both H & L.... you should question why you tell people to respect H’s sexuality, but why you disrespect L’s sexuality yourself.
just to add, by looking at facts only - L has denied l*rry 4 times (which I know of) and said it’s disrespectful & he’s tired of it. Z said the theory strained their (H & L) friendship, and Li*m said it made them (H & L) uncomfortable, and he also referred to l*rries as a ‘cult’.
also - if you bought into the theory bc u didn’t know any better, many people surrounding it will make you feel that it’s a crime to unl*rry. It’s not. It simply means that you’ve realized that the theory itself is disrespectful, and that you choose to stop ‘supporting’ it.
this thread is getting longer than I intended :) I just wanted to say that I by no means made this to hate on anyone, I am just genuinely tired of the hypocrisy on this app, so I stated the facts - which is the ONLY thing people should base their assumptions & opinions on.
lastly, this isnt just the word of “some toxic h*nries” this thread is a common opinion held by many stans from the solo fanbase on both (H & L) sides. H exists independently of L, and L exists independently of H. thank u thats all :)
to those implying I am invalidating closeted people, that is the complete opposite of my intentions.. analyzing someone’s behavior, scrutinizing their every move, then publicly speculating & creating rumours could be EXTREMELY harmful to a closeted person. https://twitter.com/hesgoldencheri/status/1284979164236451840?s=21">https://twitter.com/hesgolden... https://twitter.com/hesgoldencheri/status/1284979164236451840">https://twitter.com/hesgolden...
some thoughts people have shared, that I thought are worth adding. im just gonna cover their info for privacy.
Just to clarify, I apologize if my wording came off as offensive. I didn’t mean to offend, and English also isn’t my first language so it’s difficult to express the depth of what I’m trying to say.
I would like to rephrase my wording. In the hypothetical case where L is closeted, people should respect HIS choices & that what HE feels comfortable sharing. By that I meant that if he tweets “I am in fact straight” people should respect that, and not make it out to be a lie.
Until HE feels comfortable enough to publicly state otherwise, people shouldn’t assume that every statement he makes on the theory, every interaction with his loved one, every time he says the theory is disrespectful - is a lie.
again, I truly apologize if anything came off as me insinuating that being unsure of one’s sexuality, or being closeted, as a whole is a “lie” because that is definitely not what I meant in the slightest. And I hope I thoroughly explained it when I rephrased. ^
to really end this thread off this time, i just want to say thank you for everyone’s kind words and patience :) i was very skeptical to make this thread, but it’s an opinion I feel strongly about. my intent is not to force an opinion on anyone, just to create a talking point https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="💗" title="Wachsendes Herz" aria-label="Emoji: Wachsendes Herz">
also, your opinion is always valid! just keep in mind that it could be like the butterfly effect, something small could reflect laregly and have an impact on people’s lives. / if anyone wants to discuss this thread, or just needs someone to talk to, my dms are always open :) https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="💕" title="Zwei Herzen" aria-label="Emoji: Zwei Herzen">
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