BW:
1. You cannot be the provider. Do not settle for a man who is not willing to provide. Don’t baby him. Men are men. If they think they can push you over they will.
2. Stop getting comfortable with being on welfare.
3. If you have a child (unmarried) 1 is enough

5 kids aren’t mistakes especially not with the same man.
4. Don’t have kids until you’re married. (That’s my choice) well then it seems like you don’t know how to tell yourself no. Tim Scott whats BEST for you. Your body your choice but make the BEST choices.

5. Get an education higher than HS or start some kind of career before dating seriously.
6. Do not compromise your standards. If a man cannot respect your wishes for instances (no sex until marriage) he will continue to get you to give in. He’s impatient DROP Him

He’s not the only one. You may think he has checked off all the other criteria’s but never compromise your standards for a man. From that point he’ll continue to get you compromise.
7. Do not let a man strip you of your beauty. They

8. Stand in some kind of religious or spiritual beliefs. It is one of THEE most effective ways to stay grounded in situations that meet temp to be swayed. If Christian Proverbs 31 talks about the virtuous woman.
9. If you have daughters STOP comparing them

They reach represent a part of you and carry your legacy. Now that stems from how you view yourself you will deflect on them. But uplift them. Do not teach them to be selfless for a mans love. Teach them.
10. Stop infantilizing your sons