If there was anything I’d tell my younger self it wouldn’t be career wise. I think i evolved and flowed naturally in that area. But, i would tell her to ENJOY DATING.
A lot of people don’t deserve exclusivity and you do yourself a disservice equating that with your worth. Unfortunately i equated purity with worth for far too long which can lead you to search for the one in everyone to avoid certain experiences.
But as I’ve grown I’ve learned that dating is much more fun when you enjoy the experiences and accept people for who they are and what they bring rather than putting them in a box in your mind.
Date people who make it an experience.
Date people who know and appreciate intimacy.
Date people with character.
Date people who are honest in all aspects of their life. (Romantic/ platonic/ business)
Date people who don’t make you guess (& get into the habit of honesty too)
It’s been a long time since I’ve talked down on any of my exes because i take full responsibility for not properly vetted them and getting caught up in the honey moon now. I have so much more fun now watching, listening, and enjoying and leaving when i see something contrary to
What i want and deserve. and the more you do that you realize guys buy flowers. And they put effort into date nights. And they won’t all do things and feel you owe them things in return. They should see you as an equal. Not a burden, not a trophy. Equal.
I want everyone to experience that so we can spend less time arguing and more time enjoying because it’s lit 😭
There is abundanceee. Apply law of attraction to dating. I used to feel like i found no one attractive or interesting, it was like once in a blue moon. But they’re are truly attractive and interesting people everywhere.
I say all this because every other day on here people are arguing about dating lol. How much should be spent etc. Please date people who like you and like what you like and give yourself peace. You owe it to yourself.
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