hate a “I need a gf” guy, no dude you need a fucking therapist

Of course you deserve love if you feel unwell HOWEVER you should not get a gf for the sole reason of emotional support because that’s a therapists job to help you with.

Some are not understanding what I mean and I’m very bad at wording things but what I meant was literally that some guys refuse therapy because they think a gf will fix it therefore heavily rely on them emotionally. Yes women can rely on their bf like that too but-

there are literally guys who believe that a woman should help them through tough things and therapy isn’t needed. I’m talking about it from experience.

Also, peep the choice of words “I need a gf” not “I want a gf”

If you ‘need’ a gf then you’re lacking something that you need to work on, either on your own or with a therapist/specialist. Think about what you need and choose healthy life choices for yourself.