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I will never go on a girls’ trip ever again.This was my first and it’s a disaster. My IG looks cute but I’m not enjoying . We are currently in France and I’m moving out of the house we’re staying at to get a hotel for myself because of the toxic drama happening with the ladies
They complain that I sleep too much. We are on holiday Chile,let me sleep
They complain that I didn’t assist with self catering,but I was sleeping and they didn’t wake me up.
Also I wanted to eat out. At a restaurant.I didn’t come to France to cook. I don’t even like cooking
They complain that I didn’t assist with self catering,but I was sleeping and they didn’t wake me up.
Also I wanted to eat out. At a restaurant.I didn’t come to France to cook. I don’t even like cooking
They complain that we are in a girls’ trip but I’m doing things alone. It’s because the places they want to go to are ugly and they don’t want to go to my places because they don’t have enough money to spend. So now I have to pretend that I’m broke too and go to boring places 
Then I made plans with my best friend who lives here in France. They complain.Then I planned to go wine tasting in Bordeaux and they complained but yet they’re the ones who can’t go because they don’t have money. They can’t join me to Paris also because of their limited budget
So now I’m the snob inconveniencing others . The chat is that I want to do fancy things.
Yes, I’m in France I want to do fancy things.
I wouldn’t have came if I didn’t have enoug money to begin with.
Yes, I’m in France I want to do fancy things.
I wouldn’t have came if I didn’t have enoug money to begin with.
We had a whole long meeting last night.
This trip has reminded me that my tribe is men. When I’m in a group of men I never have issues. With ladies it can’t be more than 2 because somehow there’s always drama. We just never get along.
This trip has reminded me that my tribe is men. When I’m in a group of men I never have issues. With ladies it can’t be more than 2 because somehow there’s always drama. We just never get along.
Also never go on a girls’ trip with ladies you have nothing in common with. It won’t end well .
The flight issues were a sign for me to stay home . ....But I still want to hang out with one of the girls because she was very accommodating and me and her have always had fun when we were together. But the other no ma’am I don’t even want to hear from them https://twitter.com/nhlenhlekhumalo/status/1282572015220731906
Reading the comments I’m realizing that had we properly planned what we were going to do before coming maybe we would have known sooner that things were not going to work out. It was my first group trip and I think I’ll stick to traveling with my best friends or solo travel . 
I take responsibility for expecting everyone to accommodate me too. I did few of their things and got bored by it then one of the ladies complained that I look bored like they’re forcing me. During the meeting I explained I was bored and only did their things to fit in
And the ladies who have issues with me saying men are my tribe, well deal ..because when it comes to traveling men are my tribe. Males don’t give me drama when we are traveling. They have no problem with everyone doing things individually if there’s clashes in planning
Anyways I’ve apologized to the ladies for inconveniencing them with my expectations.We’ve gone our separate ways. I’ll spend the rest of my trip doing things with my best friend. I just want pretty things . That’s all I want . If that makes me a bad person , mayuyu
Free at last .
My second glass of wine has given me the confidence to exit the Whatsapp group
