WHY IS MY LIFE NOT LIKE HERS/HIS

This is the question some of is ask when we're not content with our own lives. This is usually an impulsive question that is devoid of deep and critical thinking. What we don't realize is that each individual's life is determined by their very

Own Destiny, actions and inactions which includes bad and good decisions, environment, cultures religion, friendship, experiences, family background, limited knowledge etc.
This elemental phenomenon of life differentiates us from one another so it's unlikely for our lives to be

the same whether successful or not. Even family ties does not guarantee a similar lifestyle. Siblings don't always share the same views about life. Not all parents treat their children with love or the same level of love and discipline. In fact, the attitudes of parents towards

each of their kids plays a significant role in each child's character formation which will eventually define their paths in life. So instead of questioning why you're not like the person you admire, ask yourself what you need to do to improve your own life, what actions you need

to take, what goals you need to set etc. Plan your work and work your plan like you need oxygen.