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I grew up thinking my father was this “evil” man that didn’t want good things for us(well that what was put in my head) I grew up, had my own mind, the manipulation didn’t work and we saw what and who Dad is. Some children will want to know the TRUTH, lies don’t work. You see...
When couples are not seeing eye to eye, the children suffer for the longest time. The psychological side of the child gets dented, but then we had a Superman of a Father, he explained to us what was going on as we were old enough, and he encouraged us not to despise or hate the..
...side of my moms family, they made it seem like he wasn’t fit to raise us kanti the man is doing the best he can behind the scenes and in silent. He waited patiently, we grew up and seeked him, we wanted him as evil as portrayed, we missed him, he was our Dad no matter the ...
..I’ll stories being fed. The split devastated our family but we understood eventually what had happened and Dad urged us not to get or invest our feeling in what happened between Mom and Himself what’s important is that they love us unconditionally and equally so...this was a
Turning point for me, the bitterness, the lost time and even the dividing lies had to be dealt with and I personally started letting go of such feeling because they hold back on who I am supposed to be, not taking other peoples failures and making them mine, so my dad is a champ-
In this regard. A lesson was forever embedded in me, to not take the sins of our parents and make them my life and my future. I healed. The lesson here, take it don’t take it, whatever the feud between to adults, protect your children from it, children cannot be manipulated ...
Forever, the duties of any parent is to raise their children not scar them with lies or paint the other parent in a bad light, it’ll work temporarily and who knows what the backfire will be when they learn the TRUTH. Break ups will happen but shield the kids from it. Anyways DO U
Perhaps let me end this thread in this way, I appreciate my moms side of the family for raising us, I detest the lies they fed us, time cannot be returned thats lost but time can be mended that’s to come, I didn’t want to live my life resenting, I love my mom (RIP) Dad is my Hero
So guys, somewhere some how we are broken, wear that brokenness as a badge of honour, let it fuel you, let that be your strength your draw from in propelling yourself to make your own destiny, to shape your own life, to be the best you can be, not because of what happened but..
Because of what you can do. The world is your oyster, soar. Some of us hold on to such hurt and project it in many relationships we enter into and we brake other people in the process, deal with your issues and be GREAT. Seek the help you need to cope. Live with lesser burden.
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