I did a ton of research the last couple days on Love and what chemicals in our brains go up and down and it is really facinating. While dopamine goes up as it would with anything enjoyable... women have an increase in oxytocin which also known as the "trust hormone" but... (cont)
A man falls in love with vasopressin which increases with sexual desire. However it takes men a lot longer to connect with a woman and fall in love so if a woman sleeps with a man before connection the vasopressin decreases at an alarming rate and ... (cont)
.... that means the Jessie Lee Peterson makes a point saying dont sleep with someone before marriage. Now marriage isn't what connects... it is these chemicals. And it is nuts because when a woman cums her oxytocin increses ten fold so that means...
... women fall more in love after sex and men fall less in love after sex (unless the connection has been established.) Another interesting fact is.... (cont)
.... women have a major increse in testosterone when falling in love which makes them more aggresive and men have a raise in estrogen which makes them more kind. So...
... if a man falls in love first they become more softer... and I have a theory that if a womans oxytocin hasn't peaked and hasn't establiahed a connection... a softer man would become less attractive to the woman making her dopamine and oxytocin lower...
.... lastly I have been doing some research on empaths and narcissistic disorders which I believe have an affect on how fast these chemicals move in the brain. Anyways. Thats it. If you want true love.... dont bang immediately!
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