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Every time I remember part of Beyonce& #39;s motivation to film Partition as she did was cuz she took him to Crazy Horse for his Bday , saw the women dancing and wished she could do that for him ......then she did it ....and then he .....
Fuck . Just . Niggas. Wow.
Fuck . Just . Niggas. Wow.
There are days I listen to this song and I feel like the bomb , and then I remember her interview while listening to her say the lyrics, "I just wanna be the girl you like , the kinda girl you like " and pain just lances through my chest coz ....fuck ....wtf ....
Fast forward to Jay& #39;s interview on CNN? ....something ...and he says the reason he felt he had to change was the pain on her face each time she looked at him.
If I had a dollar for every time a man, said that to me . That they would change because I was in pain ....
If I had a dollar for every time a man, said that to me . That they would change because I was in pain ....
It makes me think that maybe niggas do what they do not because they& #39;re oblivious to the damage they& #39;re causing , but because they genuinely need to see their women in pain to establish some sort of dominance or importance.
It& #39;s never because they& #39;re making one bad decision, or several ....but they know that once they show you that you are replaceable in their eyes , they will finally get to see you on your knees crying over them....and that& #39;s something they may yearn for more than your love .
...and maybe that& #39;s why there& #39;s so much stigma around City Girls . Theoretically, city girls will barely give a fuck once you cross them . They move on . They skip the "why don& #39;t you love me" stage and leave the man holding his paper mache trophy.
That means he& #39;s lost all systems of control. He won& #39;t come home to you crying saying y& #39;all need to work it out , he& #39;ll come home to an empty apartment and his shitty choices and a huge loss.
And this is why your mother& #39;s mother was praised and still is praised for holding on to shitty men. They say it& #39;s mature that they stuck around , but the only thing is see is that that maturity let them enjoy seeing her in pain over something they could have stopped.
