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Friends and finally get to experience all the things I’ve wanted for so long. In all reality I’m not going to lie I truly expected it to be like the movies. Where essentially are relationships would be like the movies. We would have slumber parties, go shopping
Having dinner, talking about boys, etc. You know all the girl things that sororities seem to offer. I was sadly mistaken. Instead it became almost immediate who was in and who was out when it came to the cliques in AOII. If you weren’t in one of the popular family you weren’t
Going to experience Greek life. It became to the point where I truly felt like I was an outsider in my own organization. Another thing when I joined I was so excited because finally I would have people who could help me with my studies, we had study groups that would meet at
The library but they weren’t mandatory so literally half the time people didn’t come. I ran a study group and I was there for three hours and nobody showed up. Another thing I thought when joining was that we would be helping the community in Richmond and we never
Even talked about ways we could help the community. I wanted to make a difference, I wanted to become a leader in AOII, but every time I spoke out I was corrected or ignored. I had sisters telling my big that I was mean and aggressive for standing up for myself
Not only that but rumors were going around about one of our sisters sexually assaulting another sister. We had people in our organization spreading it around like wild fire. In my personal opinion what organization stands by and allows people to spread that kind of
Information about one of our sisters. I finally felt like enough was enough and told her what people were saying about her, and she was truly heartbroken about what people were saying. Yet somehow I was in the wrong because “standards was handling it”
That was one of the biggest incidents. another issue was everytime I turned around people were saying stuff about one another, and then would go and hangout the next hour or day and act like nothing ever happened. I wasn’t raised like that nor did I understand why
You would want people like that to be your friend let alone your sister. It came to the point where I literally would get confused when I saw sisters hanging out because I would be like “oh wait I thought they were mad at each other”
Not only was the sorority fake, they essentially ostracized me from the organization. Even before all of this happened I would ask if girls would want to grab lunch or go shopping or just hangout, I would be ignored time and time again. At first I thought maybe
I was just sending them to late or just that everybody was busy but then I would see somebody else ask to do something and everybody seemed to reply to that or I would see people post on social media that they were together, even though just a little bit ago I was
To hangout. I finally got fed up and tried to call people out and posted it to social media about the constant bullshit I was going through. In the hour alone I had more girls talk to me then any other time I had been in the organization. Which made me realize
Not only had they been ignoring me and not taking me serious; they were more worried about their image then anything. If you check out their social media page, you don’t see every member on their page, why you may ask? It’s because the members who aren’t on there don’t fit the
Aesthetic. I had standards called on me for smoking my juul even though pretty much everybody else did it. Nobody else got in trouble or was called out for it. I got called to standards on 3 or 4 different occasions and I hadn’t even been there for 5 months. I truly felt like
I was a target, and that they were trying to break me down and make me into something I wasn’t. Finally the people in standards filled my head up with how much they loved me and how they would start hanging out because they truly wanted me to stay. I can promise you this that
Never happened. I even attempted to hangout with them and I went one time, and after about 30 minutes I felt so out of place I left. I could almost feel them wanting me to leave. I felt like every situation I could feel the negativity that people felt towards me.
But i didn’t understand where it was coming from considering the fact I barely went and hung out with people or even went to events. Hmm another thing I want to point out, we had girls in our organization who were doing harder drugs and would love to show it around to people
