as soon as y& #39;all grasp that nonbinary isn& #39;t a ~third gender~ maybe nonbinary lesbians will know peace

every argument i& #39;ve ever read is just "well if ur not a woman u can& #39;t be a lesbian" u do not understand how heteronormative the gender binary is

i just woke up and genuinely cannot find the words to explain just how deep this goes but i& #39;m so tired of randoms not knowing what they& #39;re talking about

and it& #39;s so different for every. single. person. how do u just lump together all nonbinary people

the binary gender system is completely arbitrary. and some people find great comfort in that system and that& #39;s wonderful!! but acting like everyone has to identify with one side or the other is so restrictive and BORING