One of my most embarrassing moments..

December 2015, I was dating a girl who was in relatively higher social class than I was. By then I was a student , broke and living in my mom& #39;s house in falls.Alamu anu was the typical ding dong girl.very much spoilt and Damn was she in love

on this particular day, it was the birthday of best friend wa alamu anu, by then a practising medical doctor. They had organised a dinner Ku Four Seasons and alamu anu Insisted that I go with as everyone going would probably be their with a date and all... I agreed ( mistake #1)

I fished out my best outfit which I deemed suitable for the occasion. I had Kaya Ndi 3 pin mthumba ( Mistake #2) , Madam came home to pick me up at home and off we Ku Four Seasons .. it was an intimidating environment for me, I was evidently the poorest of the lot.

we all sat down around the table and I noticed ex wa alamu anu there as well ( mistake #3).Time for intros came, the ex made sure that everyone introduces themselves and state what they do ( he was a doctor)https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="🙆🏿‍♂️" title="Mann gestikuliert „OK“ (dunkler Hautton)" aria-label="Emoji: Mann gestikuliert „OK“ (dunkler Hautton)">https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="🙆🏿‍♂️" title="Mann gestikuliert „OK“ (dunkler Hautton)" aria-label="Emoji: Mann gestikuliert „OK“ (dunkler Hautton)">https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="🙆🏿‍♂️" title="Mann gestikuliert „OK“ (dunkler Hautton)" aria-label="Emoji: Mann gestikuliert „OK“ (dunkler Hautton)">https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="🙆🏿‍♂️" title="Mann gestikuliert „OK“ (dunkler Hautton)" aria-label="Emoji: Mann gestikuliert „OK“ (dunkler Hautton)"> turns out me and alamu anu we the only students in the group

as the night went by, we all made our orders, had drinks what what.. being a student mowa Wanga unali green whilst the others akukwapula achina Glenfiddich ndiazinzake... zizungu zinali pamenepo you could tell kuti anthuwa sanakule movutika and all... ma elite

in no time we were done with the business of the night.. time came to settle the bill, Kaya it was their prior arrangement Kaya koma someone just counted kuti tilipo angati and divided the bill by that number so that everyone could contribute equally https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="🙆🏿‍♂️" title="Mann gestikuliert „OK“ (dunkler Hautton)" aria-label="Emoji: Mann gestikuliert „OK“ (dunkler Hautton)">https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="🙆🏿‍♂️" title="Mann gestikuliert „OK“ (dunkler Hautton)" aria-label="Emoji: Mann gestikuliert „OK“ (dunkler Hautton)"> zaufakampweya basi

so we& #39;re basically on a round table, the fist person takes the bill, contributes their share and pass the same to the next person and so on... I immediately kodola alamu anu and tell her & #39; babe yalakwatu& #39;..

The bill and cash eventually gets mmanja mwa alamu anu, She frantically starts Searching in her handbag, munayamba kutuluka ma 500, 200, 100... ine I fished out ka 3 point chakuti kanga and gave her...mind you all this was happening in the full view of everyone present

Ka tonse alliance kama change kanazapangika pamenepaja, I could hear some suppressed chuckles and laughters.. kuiwelenga ndalama yathu we were still shorthttps://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="😔" title="Nachdenkliches Gesicht" aria-label="Emoji: Nachdenkliches Gesicht">https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="😔" title="Nachdenkliches Gesicht" aria-label="Emoji: Nachdenkliches Gesicht">https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="😔" title="Nachdenkliches Gesicht" aria-label="Emoji: Nachdenkliches Gesicht">https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="☹️" title="Stirnrunzelndes Gesicht" aria-label="Emoji: Stirnrunzelndes Gesicht">https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="☹️" title="Stirnrunzelndes Gesicht" aria-label="Emoji: Stirnrunzelndes Gesicht"> apa nkuzaphanaso maso Ndi ex wakeyo kenaka anvekele it& #39;s okay guys.. at that moment I felt so defeated. so empty...

The next few minutes were the most uncomfortable and longest of my life..tima small chitchat what what and plans for ka outing being made kuti birthday ikamalizitsike, a ex anvekele you guys should come with toohttps://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="🙆🏿‍♂️" title="Mann gestikuliert „OK“ (dunkler Hautton)" aria-label="Emoji: Mann gestikuliert „OK“ (dunkler Hautton)">https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="🙆🏿‍♂️" title="Mann gestikuliert „OK“ (dunkler Hautton)" aria-label="Emoji: Mann gestikuliert „OK“ (dunkler Hautton)">https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="🙆🏿‍♂️" title="Mann gestikuliert „OK“ (dunkler Hautton)" aria-label="Emoji: Mann gestikuliert „OK“ (dunkler Hautton)"> eh... I even feel like crying now

I have never felt so little, defeated and embarrassed in my whole life. I even shed a tear or two later on... 2018, I met the ex mu cockpit.. I made sure to sit close to him and ordered a Hennessy and told the waitress to make sure abwelese ndi timakombola Tija. THE END