Telling ppl they’re projecting and LEAVING it at that is literally the most useless thing I can think of. If you think some1 is projecting and u care enough to tell them that, while also considering urself a helper/healer of any kind, then the convo really shouldn’t end there.
If u don’t wanna waste ur energy, you tune out of the convo before saying they’re projecting. Simple as that. I have too much compassion 4 people to go create that much of an unnecessary trigger. If u want someone to see smth within themself at least do it properly ya damn phony
I can and will be unrelentingly straightforward to the point of being perceived as rude with someone when they’re projecting, but I don’t just say one thing and bail. If i open my mouth to begin with I’m willing to stick around until a solution is met
The negative emphasis(?) on projection makes a LOT of people feel guilty for doing something normal that we ALL do. Since I am passionately concerned with being inclusive, I am careful with my words on topics like these and I suggest others to be as well. Peace

Clarification on the 2nd tweet in this thread, tune out can mean not answering at all or if a answer is needed say literally anything else but “you’re projecting”. End it in a nicer way, not in a way that could be charged for the other person and then just go. Like?