This talk reminds of something that pisses me off a lot.

Young Christian girls,specially in uni, reach 20+ & they become obsessed with 2 things: Mentorship & Marriage.
Single ladies summit, Winning sisters Conference, Potential Mothers kinikan kinikan. The books, messages

Check the numbers done for their male counterparts and if that doesn't rile you up.. Idk

Funny, because you'd think it takes ,2 to make a home.

It always still boils down to superiority. Always.

Idk if there's a WhatsApp group where these general syllabi are agreed on

Like.. This is your next mission in life now.

That mentor one dey every vex me. My mentor this, my mentor that...

Talk to a lot of them.. What are you menting? They donno
No direction, no exact field.. They've just always told you that you need a mentor & here you are. Atulu

A lot of times I find that it replaces their own processes of thinking&being responsible for their doctrinal beliefs
The worst is the cases of sexual things that occur in a number of these set ups. Not all, but you'd be alarmed. I'm not even joking rn. I know too many stories

Studying to be a good wife is definitely not a bad thing. But being an atulu is not.
Like think for yourself. Have a mind of your own.

Weird but the only reason some people even accept these conditions is because it's tradition, not because they've ever thought it out.

Uncle T.. See how you've opened my secret in the open

Uncle T you have casted me