Think about it in this way, “the best way to eat an elephant is to take one bite at a time.” First, you must do what’s necessary by praticing what you’re trying to preach holistically so in every single way without compromising for the sake of making people comfortable. https://twitter.com/boii_tuu/status/1283202668643721218
When that’s engraved in you, your actions, commentary and general persona will make the people in and around your life cautious of your stance on certain things, which then you need to step in and educate them even for the littlest things they bring up to you about your stance.
I’m not saying everyone can be convinced otherwise to their way of conformity to patriarchal standards, but what I’ve seen that works is that you just holistically being the change you’d like to see goes a long way than trying to impose your ideologies on people.
...And you can’t change the whole world, but can definitely make a change in your little world, and make a difference on the people you cross paths with every single day. And just hope they too will implement what they took from you to their little world.