Seeing "product of our environment" as an excuse for guys who say "cuddling" but do it to COERCE you into sex. If you have done that YOU ARE A BAD PERSON. If you want to defend that behavior it& #39;s probably bc you& #39;ve done it to someone who still probably cries about it today.

The guy who RAPED me did the SAME thing. "I just want to lay next to you". Then he kept escalating and I kept saying NO, and pushing him away. Until I couldn& #39;t fight anymore and he took that as "he won" we aren& #39;t something for you to conquer. Breaking someone down isn& #39;t consent.