Stop gender discrimination in friendship. Opposite sex could be just friends. Mind that!
I am a living proof. I have lots of guy friends given of my chosen field. Mabibilang lang sa daliri ang girl friends ko sa school kasi 7 lang kami sa klase, other classes only have 4 or 2. Yes, I hang out with them and none of them is/was my jowa.
Wala rin pong friends with benefits na nagaganap. We're wholesome friends. Let's normalize this kind of friendship because it does exist. Don't be a close-minded nincompoop. And if you don't believe it, shut up. Okay?
I am not trying to be a pa-cool one of the boys, wala lang talaga akong choice. Na-culture shock din ako noong una. I have no one to talked about girlie stuff. Umiyak pa ako noon sa nanay ko kasi I felt alone. Kasi sa isip ko, boys aren't into 'dramas'.
But I was wrong. One day, I was so down and one of my guy friends called me. He sang for me because he bluntly said that he doesn't know how to comfort me and I appreciate his effort. Walang malisya kasi yung girl bff ko yung jowa nya. Nasabi ni bff ko na I was down.
There is another guy who always asked me for milktea or sb after class, why? Kasi alam nyang magmumukmok lang ako sa dorm ko after class to the point na hindi na ako kumakain ng dinner minsan kasi ewan ko. It just don't feel it. May jowa rin sya and I'm friends with her, too.
Another guy but single. Supplier namin ng pagkain sa dorm. He's friends with my dormmate kaya nagingf friends na rin kami. Wala syang type sa amin for the record. Wala syang pinopormahan, we're simply friends at wala namang problema roon.
I still have tons of friends to add into this thread but tinatamad ako. I think it is already enough to prove a point. I'm still single at wala akong jinowa sa kanila. Not because I am surrounded by guys, nilalandi ko na sila. That mindset is so toxic and old af.
And oh! This is not wattpad. It's the reality. Check my freaking ig acc to see my friends. I post pictures of them and my mom knows them as well because I sent their 1x1 to her.
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