Women don't want boys, they want men. If they are rich, they want someone richer, if they are brilliant, they want someone more brilliant, if they are strong, they want a stronger partner.
They want someone who brings something they don't already have to the table.
They want someone who brings something they don't already have to the table.
A successful woman wants someone more successful, a smart woman, is hardly attracted to someone who hasn't proven he's smarter than her. For most women, the only way is up. Some have been forced to settle because there's a short supply of men who they are truly attracted to.
Smart, successful, attractive women have a hard time finding a suitable partner because there just isn't enough men who earn more income, who are more educated, who are more confident, more dominant and higher in social class to outclass them as one research put it.
This means simply that women however high they are in social class, however sophisticated want and are attracted to men they look up.
Women are attracted to men they can "look up" to. This trend holds true cross culturally.
Women are attracted to men they can "look up" to. This trend holds true cross culturally.
Men can marry down and its no problem, women have a hard time doing it; all things being equal.
Which means the more successful men that more successful women look up to can easily go for someone more available who aren't up to them in social class.
Which means the more successful men that more successful women look up to can easily go for someone more available who aren't up to them in social class.
This is why successful women have a hard time choosing a partner because women need a man they can look up to, not a equal, not lower. Higher
Women look to submit but to a worthy person.
Mrs Adeboye has found the one worthy of her submission and they have been together decades.
Women look to submit but to a worthy person.
Mrs Adeboye has found the one worthy of her submission and they have been together decades.
Like many other women, she's enjoying the goods of having a man worthy of her submission.
A woman who won't submit to you doesn't find you worthy of it because women are naturally submissive no matter how sophisticated they are.
A woman who won't submit to you doesn't find you worthy of it because women are naturally submissive no matter how sophisticated they are.
Most women are more agreeable as a personality trait, which means they like to be liked. They love to be loved and a woman who's loved satisfactorily will have no problems cooking her husband's meals, clipping his nails and submitting to him in exchange for true love.
End of celestial observation.
Olóyè writing from the Council Of Chiefs.
Olóyè writing from the Council Of Chiefs.