I don't see anything wrong with what Pastor EA Adeboye said. My parents trained I and my sisters to be career women (we have an Chef - me, Physiotherapist, Project manager and Software engineer in the house) as well as Help meet to our husbands.

I have my personal business, I go to work but I still cook, wash his clothes and take care of my husband, that is my responsibility. Though I am a career lady, my husband is my priority.
Ladies feel submission is bowing down.. No. Submission means Meekness, regard, respect

Submitting doesn't make you weak, you are actually strong and when you do so, you become the mumu button of your man (especially when you marry the right man). Anything you say is final (I see it between my parents all the time).

The funny thing is that it flows. If you love someone, you just want to ensure that the person is perfectly fine. You don't want sand to fall on the person. That is how I see love. It just flows. My husband washes for me, assists me and checks on me. It just flows.