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Lmao. Tosin, in more than two occasions, you and I have had conversations were we took offense to certain statements made by people that seemed to normalize women being less or settling and other conversations but now that itâs Mummy G.O. its double standards? https://twitter.com/tosin_akintan/status/1282811133662056451
lol. It is understandable that youâd be coming from a place of bias because favoritism. If youâre going to reduce every other advocacy of feminism to just âequal opportunitiesâ and forget other parts, donât come here and speak on double standards.
If youâre gonna be honest with yourself, youâd understand that this isnât âchoiceâ but âconditioningâ. And the fight is against being/feeling conditioned to a position of servitude as opposed being a partner. Also add that conversations have been going on - before now -
on how women are only celebrated for their suffering and being less and nothing more, and that is exactly what happened in those tweets. I know you though, and I understand youâre being biased, but donât scream double standards or try to box the work all to fight your agenda.
Also âequal opportunitiesâ? How is being less equal? Or equal has a different definition and is exempted when itâs with your faves?
I believe a birthday message is to celebrate someone, their life and what you love about them. And good enough, thatâs what you love, but if we were not looking at this particular family and it was someone else only able to list out the servant qualities their partner had -
it will still be the same energy cos itâs really trashy that the only thing you can say about your partner/spouse is how they âserveâ you. If you ârefuseâ to not see that, thatâs okay, I love you, but donât scream double standards here.
Lastly, that message wasnât âjustâ for her, but also throwing shades at other women that donât act like his wife. Itâs amusing and incredibly irritating to see tbh, but thatâs on that.
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