~ Sabi Boy

When a woman still resists sex by the 3rd or 4th date BUT wants to keep dating/seeing you anyways. There IS a serious problem.

dating is characterized as the "talking stage" whereby you evaluate whether or not you want to be involved with this person sexually/romantically. A lot of people don't believe in dating for dating sake. That's stupid. Before you engage in a relationship of any sort, you date!

People who "date to marry" are frankly naive and prone to fantastical thinking and majority of their forced relationships embody this problem. They also follow an outdated model that DOES NOT WORK in this day and age. To "Sabi" is not a choice. It is essential.

The scenarios
1. She enjoys your company but isn't interested sexually (friend zone)
2. She IS interested but she has sexual hang ups (virginity, rape, body issues, whatever)
3. She IS interested but she's in a relationship at the moment

Let me elaborate on each and what to do

1. She enjoys your company but doesn't like you romantically. She has no plans of sex with you anytime sooner. You do NOT want to keep dating this woman. There's a word for men who willingly partake in the friendzone... Pussy. Every single one of them.

NOW. If you're not sexually interested in a girl OR she has some other value to offer like money, connections, etc, AND you have no plans of fucking her anytime soon, then yes. You can keep her in a friendly capacity. I personally feel your boys will be of better assistance ofc.

2. She IS interested, but she has sexual hang ups. Perhaps she's a virgin. Perhaps she's been raped. Maybe she hasn't had sex in 5 years. Maybe she's just been through an abortion. Maybe she has an STD. Maybe she's MAD religious. Maybe she's a gold digger and feels you have to...

Spend a certain amount of money before sex. Maybe she's just gotten out of a horrible relationship, etc etc etc. Whatever! I've run into a few of these cases in my life and i might elaborate on each, but most of these are bad news. Be polite. Move on. Run

I should add that while i DO feel sympathy for women who have been raped, unless you want to be her personal therapist, it is best you leave them alone. While it is NOT their fault, they carry too much baggage that you don't have to deal with. Be considerate, sympathetic. Move on

My own personal experience. Having disvirgined girls before and pretty early. One thing I've noticed is this: if a girl does not want to lose her virginity to you, it is because she doesn't see you as THE GUY to lose her virginity to. It's facts.

Doesn't matter if you're her boyfriend. I must add that if you ARE her boyfriend, she expects you to not fuck anyone else and instead wait like a pussy for the day she is ready for you. 1 or 2 years usually. I don't advise cheating, so do you want to wait like a pussy?

3. She IS interested but is in a relationship at the moment and she doesn't want to cheat on her boyfriend with you. She likes you but doesn't want to feel like a slut by having sex with 2 guys at the same time and doesn't want to get caught and break up with him, etc.

She wants to keep you around while she figures it out. You see where it's going? The friend zone!

See, while it is an understandable situation, you don't want to be the guy she's not fucking. Move on. Keep her number tho and call her back in... 4 to 6 months if you remember her

Most relationships fail within that period of time. She'll be more willing to cheat with u

(Girls don't like cheating early on, but they do cheat later. Surely)

Both women and men cheat. Men cheat earlier, women cheat later.

Understand this & understand life.

Once you're doing everything right tho, girls who don't want to fuck you will disqualify themselves or you'll disqualify them. Which is perfectly fine. Let them go.

I'll elaborate on how to do everything right on your dates one day. Feel free to dm with questions.

I should also add... From my extensive experience, there is NO difference in quality between girls whom have sex with you on the first few dates and a girl who wants to make you wait for months on end. No difference at all. Most women nowadays WILL have sex with you early

If you're setting your p right.

If she really wants to make you wait, it usually isn't worth your time.

There are dozens of quality women who WILL fuck you on the first/second or third date. Find them.