Everybody wanna be in a relationship for years but y’all not ready for the the bad days, the crying, the arguments, communication going left. Relationships aren’t a fairytale & it’s not easy. But if you love them you gotta stay solid through it all and make it work!

“Who’s arguin in a relationship who’s crying? Blah blah” y’all mean to tell me y’all relationship is perfect? EVERY couple has days where they bicker or argue. & i cry cause I’m just sensitive as fuck for everything.

Relationships come with flaws and all. Don’t get into one if you think your never gonna have those flaws.

This doesn’t make a relationship toxic. A toxic relationship has a liar, manipulative person, cheating, acting like a victim, NOT communicating, ALWAYSSSSS arguing and more. My post is for certain couples That have some ups and downs. Not arguing and fighting all the mf time

& I’m not saying it’s okay to be in a relationship where y’all fight EVERYDAY. That’s not ups and downs. You shouldn’t feel mentally or physically exhausted in a relationship. But it’s OKAY to have y’all bad days. Just not all the mf time. That’s tiring

Also this doesn’t mean fight for someone who’s disrespecting you or cheating on you LEAVE!