there’s a stigma around abusive relationships that prevent victims from coming forward & that’s how common it is for people to “defend” the abuser because they “grew up” with them. let me ask a question? have you seen this person handle the stresses of adulthood?? time & distance

changes people. stop defending abusers because you think you “know” them & start helping victims coming forward. odds are they aren’t lying. if they’re coming forward it’s taking a lot of courage because abusers like to isolate you surrounding you with people who only support

them. DO BETTER & stop protecting abusers. thank you for coming to my ted talk.

lastly if anyone’s EVER in that situation PLEASE let me know & you’re more than welcome to stay with me for as long as you need until you get back on your feet. much love https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="💛" title="Gelbes Herz" aria-label="Emoji: Gelbes Herz">