my cousin, 2 years younger, is getting married soon. she& #39;s marrying her long term boyfriend. from what i know, her boyfriend has, so far, forced her to wear a hijab, not go to university events, or socialize with any guy friends. she& #39;s also on the phone with him 24/7, sometimes -

unwillingly. he gets upset when she doesn& #39;t listen to him, if she doesn& #39;t respond fast enough. he asks her friends about her activities. surveillance itni hai kay she has lie to him at time. i have tried talking to her, she won& #39;t listen. young love, mohabat andhi hot hai, etc.

her own mother warned her several times kay yay behaviour cute nahi, shadeed creepy hai. she& #39;s marrying by choice, great. but if all of us can see the red flags, i.e. the adults, why aren& #39;t we stopping this from happening? itni jaldi hai bayti ki shaadi karanay ki?

everytime I& #39;ve brought this up mujhay chup kara dia jata hai because i am single and older so i must be jealous obvs like bc are you not seeing this pattern of abuse it will only get worse once she signs the contract and I can& #39;t do anything about it because SHE WON& #39;T LISTEN TO ME

kis kis ko bachayen gay hum, Allah reham karay bas

I can& #39;t do anything about it now because we& #39;re only a few weeks away from the wedding. I& #39;m heartbroken. Chohti behen hai meri, lekin meri baat kisi nay na suni, na koi sunay ko tyar hai. She tells me relationships are compromise. This isn& #39;t compromise, this is abuse.