Ladies, please understand how crucial it is for us to master ourselves at the highest level. As a mother, I can only say that if you have a son, your relationship with him will shape his view of women. You are the ONLY person who can teach him about knowing & loving a woman.

If you do not take the time to foster a genuine relationship with your son that causes him to be able to identify value in a woman, you are part of a larger problem. It is our job to prepare our sons for women, not to teach them to how be men.

Men are only able to teach their sons about women from their observation and experience of women. Men aren’t women and vice versa. I learn the most about men from men NOT women. Due to the differences in our wiring, your most valid information will come from the source.

But the people you follow on twitter won’t tell you that. Separation of the sexes has never worked. You only breed contempt for the opposite sex, never learn & internalize flawed logic based upon other people’s observations, experiences & failure.

A balance of both perspectives is the only way for both sexes to progress as beings. When I see the way men think about women, it tells me that their mother failed them & it inspires me to be a better woman & mother because I have a son & I love my son & care about his balance.

If you’re a woman & you complain about men, be a better woman & mother. If you’re a man & complain about women, be a better man & father. That is your power. Complaining about other people based on their failed conditioning is a waste of time. Look for solutions & not problems.