women make compromises to assure that the children would get to spend lives with their father even if he is abusive. but the emotional damage kids go through seeing their mother getting beaten up, can never be fixed. they are better off without a father. definitely.

my mother made compromises because she wasn't too educated. she was financially dependent on my father. the kind of beatings she has endured, i can't even begin to mention them. and on top of that, he was the one who left her after 35 years of marriage.

seeing the abuse and fights at home has made me extremely anxious. koi thora sa bhe ooncha bolay to i start panicking. around my siblings, i am always anxious thinking kahin koi laraayi na hojaye. i take the kids away if their parents get into a fight.

so please remember. ek dafa mard ka hath khul jaye to bus. he will keep beating a woman for life. don't expose your kids to such abuse. for the sake of their mental health, please. educate your daughters. make them financially independent. and then get them married