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who wants to hear story time? :) about something that I thought was dealt with & put to rest a long time ago but apparently I see that it’s not
so once upon a time, me & my now ex bestfriend had a stupid ass argument about the most ridiculous & smallest thing. this argument arose from a question that I had asked cause I was always super sensitive when it came to her since we were super close
what the arguing consisted of was about something that I thought was “our thing” that thing was: when we were back in hs I would go over almost everyday after school & we would eat ravioli & watch criminal minds together which kinda seemed like a routine by then & we enjoyed it
I hadnt been hanging out with her much when I was in college because I constantly had tests & was constantly always studying which sucked & I felt bad & like a terrible friend. so one day I saw that she posted her ex bf on her sc story eating ravioli too & she said it was
just like old times. so ofcourse here’s my sensitive ass getting butthurt about it :) I asked her if she still thought of me as her bf since I hadnt been hanging out with her much & since she posted her ex bf on her sc story (so I brought it up to her concern) & explained why I
got so sensitive about it right? so from then on the conversation escalated & she got upset that I started questioning our friendship EVEN THOUGH I had just brought it up to her attention. but she always thinks she’s being attacked & i always had to watch the way I talked to her
anyways a lot of fucked up things were said. I tried not to cuss at her even though she was cussing me out like crazy & saying really fucked up shit (even though I know it was just anger) I tried keeping my composure & tried to be understanding cause I knew how she was
finally she crossed the line & at that time in my life I was in a very very dark place & I had no one to talk too so it sucked that the only person i thought i could talk too wasnt there 4 me. so up until then I began cussing her out & we both said fucked up things to eachother.
so after that day we agreed not to be friends. days maybe months went by with other little incidents in between but after that she was telling me if we could see eachother in person to talk things out like you know best friends should/do
i didn’t want too because she said a lot of fucked up things to me & I knew if we saw eachother we would instantly make up which I didnt wanna do. one day I came home late at night & saw a goodie bag in my front door filled with a lot of cute little things inside
it had a card inside & I knew it was from sofia. (she wanted to make up) I saw everything & read it & knew I couldnt accept it so I was trying for a kind way to decline it. I wrote her a letter back & returned the goodie bag & left it outside her door this was the note I wrote:
I thought I handled it pretty maturely & was only wishing that she would respect the decision I chose. sadly.. that wasn’t the case. she was upset that I returned it & this was the response:
she tried on FOUR different occasions to make up & I KINDLY refused by being mature about it & telling her it was better to be away from eachother. then I get hit with “for you to think we’re better off without eachother is bullshit”???? TOXIC. like respect my decision?
I kept getting her tweets sent to me where she says that she means everything she says & it’s never out of anger but she constantly apologized for them. I said the beef was dropped & she proceeded by telling me that if we didn’t talk in person, we were always gonna have it
once again TOXIC. & then I sent her this. just trying to end on GOOD terms because even though i did miss her cause we were friends for so long i wanted that chapter of my life closed & just tried to say it the nicest way possible.
then she tried to manipulate me by saying that she had a bestfriend walk out of her life & tried to make me feel guilty? with this message it seemed like we were finally gonna put a peaceful end to this friendship which made me sad but happy because I knew I could move on
couple days later I got told that she was telling all our old coworkers my personal life concerning the situation I was dealing with with my ex & my boyfriend then, she told everyone everything that I only told her when I was going through that dark time. I felt so humiliated.
not once did I drag her name or talked bad about her to anyone because she was one of the most important people to me at the time. I made sure to watch every word with her & not upset her in anyway because I valued our friendship so much.
if i’m really such a “shit” & “toxic” ass friend like she ALWAYS claims me to be TO EVERYONE would she be trying to follow me on social media or still try to be relevant somehow in my life? hm?
wish I could continue adding on to this thread because there’s so much more but sadly these were the only screenshots I found. whether you choose to believe me or not is your choice. I refuse to to let someone I confided in drag my name & make me seem like i’m the bad person.
