this thread is in no way meant to offend anyone. i advise taking everything with a grain of salt because this thread may contain things you may not want to hear/ come to terms with right now. remember that each piece of advice is meant to help you not hurt you.

â people make time for who they want. if youâre being left on delivered for hours without an explanation or valid excuse, they arenât making you a priority
â ask yourself âdo i really like this person or do i like the ideal version of them i created in my head?â
â ask yourself âdo i really like this person or do i like the ideal version of them i created in my head?â

â fall for the person, not their potential
â stop expecting YOU from other people. not everyone thinks/ behaves like you and thatâs completely fine.
â set boundaries. people can only do to you what you allow. communicate, let them know that certains things just arenât acceptable
â stop expecting YOU from other people. not everyone thinks/ behaves like you and thatâs completely fine.
â set boundaries. people can only do to you what you allow. communicate, let them know that certains things just arenât acceptable
â in terms of disloyalty and cheating, remember that itâs not about looks. them cheating doesnât take away from your value as a person. it makes them shitty, not you. quick reminder that even BEYONCĂ got cheated on
... itâs the cheaterâs fault, not yours.

â if you have to constantly ask yourself if they like you, the answer is most likely no, or not as much as you think :((
â donât accept hints. force them to use their voice and communicate. like... just imagine acting on a âhintâ and ending up being wrong about everything
â donât accept hints. force them to use their voice and communicate. like... just imagine acting on a âhintâ and ending up being wrong about everything

