Okay! Get ready for some broad generalizations about GENDER in hypnosis, and especially files:

Files by cis men made for women, in my experience, and in the experiences of my cis female friends have largely, if not exclusively been...

FUCKING GROSS AND PREDATORY...

Here's why:

1. The gender power dynamics are different and what makes a behavior in femdom subversive or fantasy, when performed by dudes is just the patriarchy, but now with
-dramatic hypno fingers- miiiiiiind powers.

(cont)

These files, both commercial and not are written from a heteronormative lens/the male gaze, and are not mindful of reinforcing patriarchal norms, nor do they speak to the listener's desire to surrender, but instead to the hypnotist's desire for control...