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What's it like to be an autistic adult?
Well, I'm in the mood for a thread, so I'm going to write about! So here is a summary of how I find being an autistic adult, let's go!
Well, I'm in the mood for a thread, so I'm going to write about! So here is a summary of how I find being an autistic adult, let's go!
1. I'm tired a lot (lol). There are many things I can do, but only for limited periods of time as it's exhausting for me (Being in some busy environments), It's easy to do too much in one day without realising, until you feel like you're falling asleep at it's only 3pm.
2. I've managed to hold down full-time jobs, but I can't do housework/cooking/anything productive when I get home in the evening.
3. I love being independent and being in control of all my choices, unlike childhood. This suits me really well!
4. If I have to make a phone call/take a call, I always ensure it's prescheduled. Otherwise, it's not happening (or very small chance if you ring me on a good day).
5. I find commuting on public transport during rush hour far too much as it causes sensory overload. It's too much to work and commute in busy environments in one day.
6. Finding work can be difficult. Companies can discriminate if you disclose your autistic and the interview process can be challenging (trust me I've had a few awful job interviews I wish I could forget about)
7. Also, the constant dilemma of telling people you're autistic in any situation. You have no idea how people will react until you say the words "I'm autistic" Reactions could go either way.
8. People don't expect you to be autistic because you are over 18.
9. I've lived in houseshares a few times now. Some were better than others, but as long as I have my own room and the people I'm sharing with are decent then it can work for me!
10. Although I do struggle to share a kitchen when I'm cooking dinner. I would try and use the kitchen when nobody else was in there (or likely to be in there)
11. I don't feel the pressure to marry/have kids etc. like a lot of people my age (Although some autistic people may feel this pressure)
12. I can't talk about being an autistic parent (Unless you count my fur baby...), but I am sure there are resources out there about what it is like to be an autistic mum/dad. Reply to this tweet with videos/links about this topic so others can find out more!
13. Private life -I'm not going to go into too much detail here on twitter, but I would find it easier if people were more direct about their feelings.
Also, autistic people have sexual relationships, just like everybody else!
Also, autistic people have sexual relationships, just like everybody else!
14. Most people my age spend their money on alcohol and socialising, but I spend mine on my interests and extra-comfy bedsheets! (for sensory reasons).
*Special interest alert*
15. I still get excited about going to Disney like I'm 5 years old! I've now been to 4/6 Disney resorts! My goal is to visit them all in my lifetime. This is defo not just a childhood phase!
15. I still get excited about going to Disney like I'm 5 years old! I've now been to 4/6 Disney resorts! My goal is to visit them all in my lifetime. This is defo not just a childhood phase!
16. I stim as many autistics do, but in public, I make them subtle so I don't get strange looks/ feel self-conscious (I really wish I didn't have to hide this though).
17. I'm very content with me time as I call it (time alone) When I travel, I usually do it solo as I find it's easier for me!
18. I love a good spa day (This has not much to do with being autistic, but it's just something I enjoy as an adult 
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19. I'm a lot more normal than you probably think (but also not at the same time).
The point is being an autistic adult can be challenging, but it's also fulfilling!
Overall, I'm pretty content with adulthood (so far). I can still enjoy life just like anybody else!
The point is being an autistic adult can be challenging, but it's also fulfilling!
Overall, I'm pretty content with adulthood (so far). I can still enjoy life just like anybody else!
20. Anyway, I'm tired now! I'm going to finish the thread here and I hope you've enjoyed reading it!
