I see it as like saying I dont want to go play at that park anymore bc the kids over there are mean. Ruinning the image of the cool park bc you'll think of the mean kids and not the park.
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I hope that makes sense??
To explain it better+ https://twitter.com/vantektl/status/1280096659494580225

The people at the park shouldn't be the reason you enjoy going to the park as the park is its own thing and has it own cool features on it's own. BUT the people there also help heighten the experience of the park. They make you more ecstatic to return to THAT park+

Since it is filled with such cool and fun people. They help create the environment that the park is associated with. If the kids are mean to anyone and everyone who say "I dont like that swing" or " the slide at park E is way cooler" then you're not gonna want to return+

For the fear of being bullied for one opinion you had or stated.(Or any other thing you say or do at the park) Especially when you assumed that because they were cool and nice people like the park.
So essentially cool park + cool people = an awesome experience I want to return 2

I hope this makes sense to people who actually wanted to read this thread. Basically I ultimately understand why you would unstan for the fans as the fans help heighten your experience of said group. People will always think of the negativity before the positive.+

.........so basically dont give them a reason to focus on negative things, we shouldn't have mean and toxic ppl in our fandom in the first place but I digress.