cap venus do you.....ever get tired of turning the person you’re interested in to a “goal”........you’re so persistent because u keep perceiving them as a mission: if u don’t get them, you’ve lost. and without realizing it: you’ve equated someone’s interest in you to your worth

please take the first sign of disinterest as what it is: a lack of reciprocity. they’re not going to suddenly look at you differently after u give them 8 months of your life. you’ve been projecting this whole time. they don’t like you

please stop this weird thing you do. leaving after someone clearly shows no interest in you doesn’t make you a “quitter”. learn to leave quicker. you’re so set in building something with someone, you don’t even pay attention to the way they’ve been avoiding you

people are not your barbie house fantasy. stop thinking so much ahead. you scare ppl away with all of these plans, hopes and dreams. would it kiII you to take a moment to enjoy the other person????? the present??????