PSA to all XIV players:

Rando healers arent gonna heal you to your comfort level. I have so many better ways to use my cast times than to be spamming Physick on you cause you cant handle being around 20% health for 2 seconds

To further elaborate on this:

Its in the best interest of the party for a healer to DPS rather than constantly top a tank off

The only time a healer should be flat out criticized for their healing is if people are dying and because of a lack of healing

I get people being nervous about dropping to low health, thats normal at the start, but learning to tank in XIV is learning that healers are not there to keep you at 100% health, theyre there to make sure you dont drop to 0%