I so hate this culture of desi house where when everyone is sitting on dinning table and male of a family need anything, water, more food or anything from kitchen, he isn't supposed to get up and get it but the female is supposed to leave her food in between and get that

Well when everything is served and you need something extra, get up and help yourself. Female also need to eat with no disturbane. If you were working whole day then women also spent time to make food and serve it. Now at least let them eat it peace.