English speakers demaning that nonbinary people only use they/them while in my fucking language a car is female and a fridge is male

Well idk follow me for gay art i guess
Sometimes i'm even funny

Btw guys our first languages aren't little accessories we use "beside" english
They're part of our upbringing,our culture,and the way we communicate with people
So when we speak about our languages and you say OK BUT YOU SPEAK ENGLISH, you're not helping

Guys this is a convo about how some english speakers want to fit us into a trinary box and if we refuse we aren't ~valid~ but don't realize that many people
- can't
- don't want to
I both can't and don't want to
I use any and every pronoun, they is just my main ho