The frat did a lot to protect me after this happened to me.

I’d like to talk about why that seems great in theory but it’s actually problematic

Let’s dive in. (A thread)
(1/6) https://twitter.com/thepopecaroline/status/1279247512298274816

When ZBT locked the upstairs bedroom/bathroom, they hid the key. Only 4 people knew were it was. Me, 2 bros who lived at the house, & the risk manager.

This is dangerous. While I trust the men who knew the key’s hiding place.. there’s lots of ways this could’ve gone awry.
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When I went on ZBT formal the following spring, I was worried bc Arad was also gonna be on the trip (he came in his own car…but ZBT rented a bus…).

An exec man told me they’d be looking out for me the whole time and they’d have their eye on Arad.
(3/6)

What’s the issue? Sounds like they handled things ok?

The issue is — Arad was NOT the only potential assailant in ZBT. And I was NOT the only potential victim.

What about other guys with a similar mindset as Arad (and Guille)?

What about ALL the girls at their events?
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We must use sustainable solutions to end rape & sexual assault in #GreekLife. “Protecting” certain srat girls does NOTHING. Frats need consent seminars. Frats need to weed out creeps during pledging. Frats need to foster an environment that’s SAFE for sorority womxn.
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While we’re at it, sorority womxn can be coercive too. Womxn can sexually assault men.

AND *gasp* GIRLS CAN ASSAULT EACH OTHER. Not all srat girls are straight!

AND GASP AGAIN. Not all frat men are straight! MEN in Greek life CAN be raped!

Let’s make a consent culture.
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