my experiences with smesty are extremely tame in comparison to the other victims but I may as well share my thoughts/experiences with them

this isn’t something that’s affected me tremendously but it wouldn’t be fair to not share this especially to warn others

a thread
smesty would often initiate DMs with me from a week after I came out as a girl, initially the talking was primarily about smash but they quickly steered it in the direction of sending me selfies n stuff but I would get these DMs often and would respond just not to be rude ig
previous to this we had talked once at eg2 briefly about nothing consequencial these DMs were quite forward for someone I didn’t know, i was young and recently out as trans i was vulnerable and smesty is 4 years older than me, things didn’t go terribly for me but I can’t help but
feel that this could have very quickly turned to grooming if I had given them more to work with smesty eventually ended up dating someone else younger than me so that could be why things never got more forward w/me idk they stopped DMing me as often after they started dating Tom
I know for a fact they did similiar things in DMs with friends of mine too I’m not sure how everything worked or intentions rlly but it’s hard to not see things in a negative light now
here are some screenshots, super tame in comparison to other accounts I’ll link at the end

1)offering to loan me money to go to BWChamps2
2)sending me 28 selfies back to back
3)manipulating me to not trust cierra
4)referencing my role in the act smash discord a bit specific ig
1)talking about smash into sending me selfies (this was the 2nd time she DMd me)
2)apologising on behalf of her friend who kept waking me and cynthia up at EG4 by rolling knives and bread under our door, shouting and knocking, we asked him to stop several times
often think about what would have happened had she paid for my flights over, would I have been manipulated? I was lucky enough to not have to deal with her in person at all rlly and maybe if it wasn’t Tom dating her maybe my story would be different and worse, who knows
here’s an important account to read if you haven’t already i feel a bit sick and maybe i had the puzzle pieces to deal with smesty a bit earlier, feel like I failed im sorry https://twitter.com/cherriloli/status/1279241648669634560">https://twitter.com/cherrilol...
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