the whistlecyrusses are an extremely toxic and controlling friend group. a thread.
i know this seems dramatic asf but i didn’t know what else to name it https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="😭" title="Laut schreiendes Gesicht" aria-label="Emoji: Laut schreiendes Gesicht">https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="😭" title="Laut schreiendes Gesicht" aria-label="Emoji: Laut schreiendes Gesicht"> i just need to shed some light on the behavior in the friend group because it’s awful
ok so let’s start but establishing their names/whistle cyrus numbers to make this less confusing
melissa ( #1)
av ( #2)
mahria ( #3)
me (formerly #5)
hannah ( #6)
lea ( #8 maybe 7 idk)
ady ( #9)
(left out the people who aren’t involved although they were complicit)
ok so i became friends with all these people early 2019 and became #5 a bit later on. for a very long time there were no issues between any members of the group. the problems started almost a year later in january. it started by me becoming
more involved with stan twitter and wanting to discuss more difficult/controversial topics with the chat (ex. he/him lesbians, “heterophobia”)
when i stood my ground i would be seen as trying to start drama. this wasn’t a big deal ofc because i did get quite defensive.
eventually the whistlcyruses formed a new chat called the “safe chat” this was a chat where we were safe to express ourselves and talk about personal topics (this chat had a few other non whistlecyrus people in it) in early february i began to realize
i was really not ok with some of the things joshua rush had done and i unstanned him. this caused the group to be upset and mad at me for trying to defend why i didn’t like him. lea was particularly passive aggressive and from then on ignored all my messages and only liked
messages against me. (earlier lea had teased me to the point where i had to leave the groupchat until i recieved an apology because i had explicitly stated it was making me upset/uncomfortable) at one point someone’s irl was added (not gonna give their name
or anything) this new person became extremely upset with my jokes about hating straight people to the point where she yelled at me over voice messages and called me a disgusting horrible person.
this is where it gets confusing because stuff starts happening more and more behind my back. they had created a new groupchat called “the safer chat” which excluded av and i. i ended up finding out about this around a week after they formed it (i can’t be sure of course)
when i confronted them about it, at first they denied it and said i was crazy. i then showed them the proof i had seen and they finally admitted. they said they didn’t feel safe around me (which they had never told me btw https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="😐" title="Neutrales Gesicht" aria-label="Emoji: Neutrales Gesicht">) and that they excluded av because they didn’t
want her telling me about it. rude asf i know. i was obviously upset and left the group chat. a bit later i was added to the safe chat (not safer chat) on a new account where they were unaware it was me. there are lot of voice memos of them saying blatant lies about me
i have the voice memos saved to my computer but i can’t figure out how to share them here so i’ll just paraphrase.
hannah accuses me of fetishizing gay men (i’m a lesbian what lmao), she also accused me of saying she faked her depression when in reality i had just misunderstood and thought she was undiagnosed, she then told the chat that i had posted about her
on my story saying i hated when people got defensive over their mental illnesses. this is the conversation she SAID happened. (trying to qoute as closely as possible)
hannah: hey is that post about me
me: what post?
hannah: the one about people faking depression
me: i don’t know what your talking about
she told them that i had deleted the post and pretended i never posted it when i reality i left that post up for a full 24 hours and it didn’t have anything to do with her. here are the receipts https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="😘" title="Kusshand zuwerfendes Gesicht" aria-label="Emoji: Kusshand zuwerfendes Gesicht">
first is the misunderstanding, second is her reaction to my story, third is the story post (screenshotted from my archive)
i posted this after a discussion about how upsetting it was how normalized it is to claim you have ocd with a friend of mine who has ocd. nothing to do with hannah.
another thing brought up in that chat i was in withou them knowing; mahria said something along the lines of her not understanding how i’m a lesbian when i was thirsting over men just a month ago. i thought i had screencaps but i can’t find rip.
hannah also told the group i had a crush on someone much younger than me even tho she had girlfriend which is just??? first of all she was a couple years OLDER and yeah she had a girlfriend but i wasn’t trying to break them up lmao
here are some screenshots of the teasing, this went on for a couple days until i had enough and left. i asked them to stop several times and just to be respectful but nope :)
here’s whatever this is
i was then added to the whistlecyrus chat on my main and everything was good until it wasn’t, in all honesty it was probably petty drama at first but the breaking point was when my trauma was invalidated.
we were discussing siblings and i told them how much i hate my sibling and wanted them dead (I HAVE A GOOD REASON) and everyone let me be because they knew i had trauma. the conversation died down but like ten minutes late mahria logged on and said i
shouldn’t wish death on anyone. all of a sudden hannah agreed. i defended myself and tried to move on but they were persistent. i tried to get them to stop talking about it but eventually it was too much. i ended sending them a whole ass paragraph about everything i’d experienced
mahria replied with “ok” LIKE WTF.
ady and av (i’m close to both of them and we have our own gc where we were discussing what was happening) were VERY upset with that response and they made it very clear. mahria is 24 years old and at that big age she should be the one comforting her younger mutuals but nope.
more on mahria is that she said she couldn’t afford to donate (which is fine btw!!) but then bought a cameo from jrush, a pride shirt, and some mobile game. there’s also been a lot of instances of her fawning over underaged guys.
(only could find one screenshot)
and that’s all!!! this part of my life was really awful and there is more that i might go into late but i feel like these are the most important parts
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