Are you disabled ?

A quick easy thread.

Can you have a decent dayjob ?

(by that I mean : work in acceptable condition for acceptable amount of time, because obvisouly abled or not, it's hard to work 10h in a row doing chores and being stressted of getting fired if you don't do more every day)

Can you move in public spaces ?

(going gorceries, taking public transport, going for a walk...)

Can you sleep enough without help ?
Can you eat enough without help ?

Can you communicate fluently with your peers ?

Can you do all of thes mentioned above without sacrifiying some to be able to do the others ?

Can you do all of those things AND have time and energy for hobbies, friends... ?

Can you do all of those things without noticable pain ?

Can you do all of those thing without being often too tired to do them, to do them properly, and to do them without it beaing very hard ?

If you have aswered no to any of those questions : congrats, you're probably disabled.

But also : it's ok. Being diabsled isn't a bad thing. It is not a degrading thing. It is not an eternal curse preventing you from any happiness and meanigful relationships.

I would know, I say no to absolutely all of the things above

Realizing you might be disabled can be frightening and confusing. It's perfectly ok to feel that. But you're not alone in this. Disabled people have been around since the begining of times, fightinig for our right to live and be happy. You've got your back. Welcome to the family.

Also : feel free to ask any question here. I don't want to leave you alone with those heavy thoughts.