the reason yall are starting to hate monogamous romantic relationships is cause yall date to marry, have a hard time letting people go when it's time, and don't know how to properly set & respect boundaries. change my mind.

promise if you date to enjoy and experience another person's love, you'll be a lot happier!

stop trying to literally pour all of yourself into somebody and just BE with them!

I've just been seeing a lot of ppl on the TL today talking down on monogamy and look... if that's not your preference then that's fine. it's another thing if you're reacting out of hurt though. dating multiple people not gone fix it, and not dating at all won't either.

shit at a certain point my friends was the ones breaking my heart. I've had so many people do me foul, platonic AND romantic. you just gotta let people go sometimes and move on. there are really only a couple people who gone be there the whole way.

look! date who you want, date however many people you want! just don't change the way you date because you're hurt. the key here is to HEAL. when you heal, you can find out what you truly like.