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Bunch of guys asking me about being a good top and a Dom. So here goes.
First thing I usually hear is guys worrying about keeping it up. When I was in my 20s and 30s my dick literally never went down. I came in about 30 seconds but stayed hard so I could usually go many times
First thing I usually hear is guys worrying about keeping it up. When I was in my 20s and 30s my dick literally never went down. I came in about 30 seconds but stayed hard so I could usually go many times
As I got older this wasn’t the case. It rarely fails me now but most tops I know use viagra, cialis and even tri-mix if it’s gonna be a long session or group sex that last a few hours. There’s no shame in any of them and they can be a lot of fun.
For younger guys not staying hard is usually mental, you psych yourself out about it. Relax. Find someone you’re comfortable with and get your confidence back. Use medication if you think it will help. For group sex usually all the guys, even the bottoms I know will pop a viagra
Just be super careful about viagra and poppers. The two combined can cause a drop in blood pressure and have serious side effects. I almost passed out at New Breed party once.
Once your dick is hard and it’s time to get to action you have to know your own dick and your own threshold for cumming. My top pup is younger and has no problem putting 5-6 loads in me when we hang out. But it usually goes down for about an hour in between.
I can make him hard whenever I want by doing the things he really likes. So figure out what makes you hard and do that. For me it’s eating ass and sucking dick. Put a big dick in my mouth and my dick stands straight up.
When you want to last a long time the more you fuck the longer it takes. If I fuck often it usually takes me 30-40 minutes to cum. If I haven’t fucked a few days it goes quick so I have to pay attention to what I’m feeling. When I start to feel it I back way off.
Sometimes if I get to the point where I think I’m gonna bust and back it off then I can go for longer. Everyone is different. If I’m SUPER attracted to the guy it’s always harder so I will cum right away, take a break and then go again. It’s always way longer the second time.
Train yourself by edging alone and learning the point of no return. If you are able to cum multiple times in a short period you’ll be very popular. If you cum once in 30 seconds and can’t go again you need to train yourself of you want to go longer.
Either way, no shame and find guys that want what you have to offer. I have a friend that is super proud of his 1 minute pump n dump and bail performance. He owns it and the guys he fucks are into it.
Once that’s out of the way of you want to smash prostates here’s how it’s done.
Every prostate is different. I’ve learned how to find it pretty quickly.
Every prostate is different. I’ve learned how to find it pretty quickly.
On guys under about 6’ it’s usually 2-3 inches in and behind thier balls. On taller guys it’s deeper. My dick is built for guys under 6’. It’s not super long but it is super thick which puts pressure on all sides and gives me leverage to angle up and hit it.
I usually start with them on their back, legs in the air. When starting I have to be super careful getting in. I can’t hurt them and need to give them time to relax. If I don’t it ruins the entire session. Use lots of lube, this also helps with not cumming fast.
I always tell them to breathe. Take deep breaths and look at me. I watch their face for reactions and feel what their ass is doing. If they are ok I go in more. If I see any wincing or they start to hold their breath I slow down or stop until they relax. I’ll even pull out.
Once I get it all the way in I will usually stay there and not move for a couple minutes. Sometimes I flex my dick to see where they are. If they wince I know they need more time. Once they are relaxed I start pumping. Very very slow at first. Let them get used to my dick.
Listen to your bottoms. If it isn’t workin on their back I will lay on my back and let them control the speed and get comfortable. Giving them control usually makes it go faster if they are really tight. Once they are entirely relaxed the fun begins.
As I said, the prostate is different on everyone. I find that if they are on their back and I push thier legs waaay back it tilts their pelvis up and let’s me fuck up at an angle and hit it very easily. Always make them piss before you start.
If they have never had thier prostate smashed they will think they have to piss. Sometimes they do anyway. I can always tell when I hit it because their eyes get big and they usually yell. Go slow at first, especially if it’s thier first time.
Once they start to realize what’s happening just pound away. Go as long as you can or until they can’t handle anymore. Either way pay attention to them. Make sure they are enjoying it. Not everyone does. This isn’t about making you feel good it’s about making them feel good.
Another way to hit it and what works best for guys over 6’ is to let’s them ride you. But instead of leaning forward push them back so their pelvis rotates and your dick is smashing the wall behind thier dick. I’ve make tons of guys cum this way and given a bunch of anal orgasms
You can also roll them on their side. Bottom leg straight down top leg pulled up to their chest. Go in from the back on your knees so your dick is going on sideways. Then fuck straight forward. Be careful in this position as you can slip out and hit the hole instead.
I keep flipping them around in alll positions as they will cramp up if you keep them bent in one position too long. The key is to keep smashing that prostate. Smash it enough and they will piss, leak precum like crazy, actually cum, and sometimes anal orgasm.
If you have them on their back and want to switch to them riding you a fun trick is to lean forward, make them cross their arms, spread your feet apart, grab their wrists and roll back pulling them on top of you.
This usually drives your dick way in when they land they usual make noise and a face. Haha. I always tell them to give me a 5-10 minute warning when they can’t take anymore. If they make me stop before I’m done I end up with blue balls.
My favorite way to finish is to put them on their stomach, legs together. Face down arms spread out. Make them take a couple hits of poppers, do some myself and lay on their back and fuck like crazy. After a particularly long session it can take me 5-10 minutes of this to nut.
I will usually put one arm under their arm and the other on top of their head or sometime around them so they feel me holding them while I fuck. It’s been done to me and it’s a very intimate position.
Once I’m done I stay in for awhile and keep pumping so I know it’s all in there and doesn’t leak out when I pull out. Then it’s cuddle time. Hang out and lay there together, you’ve both just been through an intense session and need time to gather yourself together and come down
I’ll talk more about being a Dom on another thread. This one long as hell.
