furing this #metoo movement I would like to toss in something I have only ever told my husband -- a thread.

*during (fml) Recently a person who forced me into sexual activities when I was around 13-14 resurfaced randomly and hit me up on FB

At the time I did not understand what I was doing, but I did know I didn't want it. It felt disgusting, confusing. He was only a few years older then me but it was traumatizing nonetheless. It doesn't mattwr what age they were. If a male/female touches you or

makes you feel uncomfortable its OK to speak out, even if it doesn't happen right away. Its terrifying. I blocked the person out of sheer discomfort at those memories I could never share with anyone and that I buried deep down.

so yeah, predators can come in all ages, shapes and sizes. and it haunts the victims for a long time.