you guys have this incredibly specific image of enbies and it show. skinny completely androgynous white kid with fluffy brown hair, maybe glasses and braces? who wears nothing but hoodies and has a completely neutral gender and expressions. this sounds rly cute, but it’s an issue

we don’t look or present one way. we’re all different. non-binary is an umbrella term. stop thinking of gender as a linear scale as a trinary or a linear scale. that’s not how it works. it’s like a color wheel

lets say boys are fully saturated yellow and girls are fully saturated purple. that still leaves the whole color wheel u know. any color that isn’t that shade of yellow or purple can be considered outside of the binary.

you can be a pastel purple and it’ll still be different than the shade of purple the girls have. you can be something completely different, you can be a mix, you can completely ditch the color wheel and be black if it fits. it’s still different than the bright purple nd yellow

being non-binary has no limits. do whatever you want. even if that pastel purple is close to the binary saturated purple in name, it’s a different hex code entirely.

when y’all whine about enbies identifying as lesbians it’s so silly bc. do u know how vast the selection of non-binary identity is. how much room we have to work with and how little terms we have to simply express our gender.

wanting us all to use one or 2 androgynous incredibly specific terms when we have a whole color wheel to work with is stupid

THAT REMINDS ME all sexualities are inclusive of enbies to some degree because we have this whole fucking wheel of colors to work with. trying to make sexualities that are exclusive of ALL of us is impossible because there’s so much variation.

y’all purposefully misinterpreting the “this sounds really cute line” i’m saying that so people who actually look like this in the comments don’t think i’m saying it’s a bad thing. that’s. just how i talk.

u are saying that me, a non-binary person, is infantilizing non-binary people by calling ppl cute to clarify that i’m not saying that they look bad. can u please focus on what i’m saying. begging u. i’m using compliments that i, personally, like

WIAT I JUST SCROLLEDD PRETTY NON-BINARY PEOPLE POSTING SELFIES!!! AWOOGA!!!
U ARE ALL SO SWAG

amab non-binary ppl r in my replies saying dat they feel left out and i’m SADDD none of u deserve this. anyways i love u. all of u. fr u do not deserve this, we all deserve 2 feel seen!

fat non-binary ppl, i love u
non-binary ppl of color??? swag!!
masculine presenting non-binary ppl *smoooooooch!*
feminine presenting non-binary ppl??? *KISSA U*
if u look and act exactly like the example i listed in da first post? come here. i will kiss u

ok now that this is getting attention look at my dogs. da big guy is kobe and da lil guy is rocco. why’s kobe so fuckin huge. why’s rocco so small.

kobe is on my lap rn tell him hi. he has his elbow in my gut