you’re a harasser if you’ve done at least one of the following:
1. exploited a woman at a vulnerable stage to get physical with her ( she could have left a break up, or is mourning death, or hasn’t moved on from you and you know well you don’t want her anymore).

2. you were vague about your intentions BEFORE you laid a finger, and decided to make your intentions clear AFTER you got what you wanted. ( some men do that to emotionally hook the girl and tell her his intentions when it’s TOO LATE).

3. You didn’t ask for consent, even if you’re about to just hold her hand. You’re about to involve another human emotionally and mindfully. ASK HER DIRECTLY IF SHES OKAY WITH IT.

4. You had to pressure her, by making her feel that there are consequences if she doesn’t abide by you. ( ex: you would lose interest, or fulfill your desire elsewhere )

This thread is based on real anecdotes, feel free to message me so I can add more points to the list.