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#SexualHarassment
With ever changing social, cultural and moral norms with every other day we come across new lows, menace of sexual exploitation and harassment is so wide spread that merits very stringent measures to safeguard nears and dears one. Specially most vulnerable
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With ever changing social, cultural and moral norms with every other day we come across new lows, menace of sexual exploitation and harassment is so wide spread that merits very stringent measures to safeguard nears and dears one. Specially most vulnerable
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segment of society the kids. When animal instincts take over the human part "trust" is word left far behind. Measures that we need to adopt may be
1. When it is about your kids noone is trust worthy. Most of the time this heinous act is performed by those whom you trust the
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1. When it is about your kids noone is trust worthy. Most of the time this heinous act is performed by those whom you trust the
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most, that includes grown up cousins, domestic helper, uncles, neighbors, teachers both religious and academic, nearby shop keepers, close relatives.
2. The web they design to manipulate is woven by threads of your trust. First they would gain your trust, get close to kids
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2. The web they design to manipulate is woven by threads of your trust. First they would gain your trust, get close to kids
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Would use tactics of affection, oblige the kids with provision of their needs ranging from simple sweets to electronic gadgets. Or threaten them with some of their weak point.
3. In case of teachers, kids will be manipulated at the name of grades, complaint to parents for
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3. In case of teachers, kids will be manipulated at the name of grades, complaint to parents for
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Their weak academic performance, or any other weak point.
5. Domestic workers would never hesitate to carry out molesting of kids in absence of parents n these kids can be as minor as 2 yrs.
#WhatToDo
1. First and foremost give your kids trust.
2. When they are in trouble
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5. Domestic workers would never hesitate to carry out molesting of kids in absence of parents n these kids can be as minor as 2 yrs.
#WhatToDo
1. First and foremost give your kids trust.
2. When they are in trouble
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First person that should come in their mind to seek help must be father or mother. But it is not possible if at the name of grooming they were kept at distance.
3. Self created Taboos are to be demolished. Kids are to be taught what is good touch n what is bad touch. They
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3. Self created Taboos are to be demolished. Kids are to be taught what is good touch n what is bad touch. They
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should have ability based on your guidelines to assess the threat.
4. Your tough commitments shouldn't be a reason to your ignorance towards changing attitude of your kids.
5. Respect shouldn't be bridge less stream that can't be crossed when kids need you to listen.
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4. Your tough commitments shouldn't be a reason to your ignorance towards changing attitude of your kids.
5. Respect shouldn't be bridge less stream that can't be crossed when kids need you to listen.
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6. Observe closely the mood swings, sudden depression, display of anger. These are indicative to something wrong just don't ignore with anology "bachay baray Hu rahey hain" dig it up.
7. Independence is not to be denied specially growing kids but need to maintain a fine
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7. Independence is not to be denied specially growing kids but need to maintain a fine
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Balance. Juvenile minds are prone to fall for distractions, ensure monitoring it is not interference.
8. Concept of good or bad should be embedded deep down, at the time of choice it will pay
9. Religion is not something old fashioned it is there to govern us till end of
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8. Concept of good or bad should be embedded deep down, at the time of choice it will pay
9. Religion is not something old fashioned it is there to govern us till end of
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Times, stay connected and keep your kids connected too, here actions will be better than words Only.
It's sole responsibility of parents to safeguard your kids from evil that is difficult to identify in these terrible times. Blind trust on anyone including kids can
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It's sole responsibility of parents to safeguard your kids from evil that is difficult to identify in these terrible times. Blind trust on anyone including kids can
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ruin their life. Be careful, be very vigilant there is nothing as precious as your kids, no gains are worthy if kids are being neglected. May Allah SWT keep us all in His eternal peace and blessings.
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