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I really gotta do a thread and inform the fellas cuh shit is getting sad out here. Women are running up the score and the bodies on us lol
I could honestly say the majority of woman I’ve gone on a date with in the past 18 months (dating back to when my observation started) weren’t really interested in knowing me. They’re just trying to gauge if I’m suitable (a real nigga) enough to give me sex
It got me thinking why that is? Before social media became the huge thing it is now, women wanted social and economic equality. Thanks to social media, not only do they have both now, they’re pretty much trouncing men in both department. It’s not even close
Unfortunately, like all good technological advancements, there tends to be unintended consequences. I feel like dating and what it used to mean ( getting to know someone) has been severely impacted by it
social media has totally changed the game. I foreshadowed this early on when MSN and BBM were a thing but now I’m starting to grasp how much it has truly changed the game. Whether it’s for the better or worse, it depends on what your interests are
Thanks to social media and courting dynamics (men being pursuers; whatever that fucking means), Women have indefinite supply of men at their finger tips and as a result, most are absolutely (don’t let them lie to you, I’ve seent it) taking advantage of it.
The social equality they seeked (like being shamed or chastised for being promiscuous while men didn’t receive the same energy) has been achieved and they’re thriving, somehow they aren’t admitting it (understandable, there’s still fear/ptsd of being shamed or held accountable)
How has this impacted dating? Oh brother, (the jungle is a tuff place, only the strong can survive). Before, dating used to be getting to know someone blah blah blah, all that deep soggy stuff. Now, it’s a glorified interview for sex. Essentially hook up culture
Men and especially women don’t really care to get to know someone anymore (I’m sure you’ve heard phrases like “quick to cut a nigga off” fam there’s no lies in their raps) since there’s a significant pool of options to choose from, thanks to social media.
It’s like a kid at a candy store, you know kid wants all the flavours the store has to offer. Same shit when you have pool of options, you’re going to dip in all the sauces. Thats why shawty is kicking yo ass to the curb after a couple of months. Your times up. On to the next one
I don’t know the answer to this phenomenon (There isn’t. As long as social media exists, women will always have more social benefits). Dudes just have to adapt. I’ve tried playing the games by the new rules and admittedly, I’m not good at it.
You can try date multiple women at the same time (do them like they’re doing us type shit). For me, thats encroaching on the time I spend playing and watching football (That’s not ideal).
Going forward, Fellas before you go on a date, first find out if she’s trying to get to know you or if she’s interviewing you for sex. One is actually dating, the other is well, you’re just hooking up. Saves you a lot of stress
Also, you know what it is and you can conduct yourself accordingly in regards to emotional and financial approach.
P.S. please don’t bother flogging me for this thread. Suck your mum in advance
