My boyfriend and I are approaching 3 years, and after all this time, he has never EVER raised his voice at me, called me names or disrespected me. And I am his first girlfriend ever. Verbal abuse is so normalized that it took me so long to realize that THIS is how it should be.

I’m soo sorry but I decided I won’t reply to the comments because there’s some [incels] trying to turn this tweet into a negative space & it’s kind of overwhelming https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="🥺" title="Pleading face" aria-label="Emoji: Pleading face"> but if you guys wanna share kind words/testimonials with me feel free to dm me!! https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="♥️" title="Herz" aria-label="Emoji: Herz">https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="🥰" title="Smiling face with 3 hearts" aria-label="Emoji: Smiling face with 3 hearts">

here is a photo of us from his 21st bday from two years ago for some visuals https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="♥️" title="Herz" aria-label="Emoji: Herz">https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="♥️" title="Herz" aria-label="Emoji: Herz"> thank you for all the love and kind words https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="🥺" title="Pleading face" aria-label="Emoji: Pleading face"> he is a very very good man and I promise y’all we love and care for eachother very well and very deeply

throwback to when I couldn’t afford a vanity so he made me one https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="☺️" title="Lächelndes Gesicht" aria-label="Emoji: Lächelndes Gesicht">https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="🌟" title="Leuchtender Stern" aria-label="Emoji: Leuchtender Stern">

Honorable mention: The “box” he made me with for our one year https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="😗" title="Kussgesicht" aria-label="Emoji: Kussgesicht">https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="😂" title="Gesicht mit Freudentränen" aria-label="Emoji: Gesicht mit Freudentränen"> I was bamboozled y’all!!! https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="😭" title="Laut schreiendes Gesicht" aria-label="Emoji: Laut schreiendes Gesicht">https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="💖" title="Funkelndes Herz" aria-label="Emoji: Funkelndes Herz">

You guys are all sooo sweet!! we never post anything together but you guys make me wanna share hehe https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="🥺" title="Pleading face" aria-label="Emoji: Pleading face">https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="😭" title="Laut schreiendes Gesicht" aria-label="Emoji: Laut schreiendes Gesicht">https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="💖" title="Funkelndes Herz" aria-label="Emoji: Funkelndes Herz">

me & my bf are actually long distance and met through Twitter!! I would post covers, so him & his producer friend, at the time, emailed me and asked if we could work together https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="😭" title="Laut schreiendes Gesicht" aria-label="Emoji: Laut schreiendes Gesicht">https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="😂" title="Gesicht mit Freudentränen" aria-label="Emoji: Gesicht mit Freudentränen"> then he came down to LA from the Bay one day and we finally met https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="🥺" title="Pleading face" aria-label="Emoji: Pleading face">

One more thing... to the incels in my mentions: stop being purposely dense in the replies, in order to invalidate and gaslight me. It’s triggering asf. My bf & I are naturally loud, but we don’t scream/yell to intimidate/scare eachother. Use context clues and read the room https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="🧚🏼‍♀️" title="Fee (mittelheller Hautton)" aria-label="Emoji: Fee (mittelheller Hautton)">https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="✨" title="Funken" aria-label="Emoji: Funken">https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="💞" title="Drehende Herzen" aria-label="Emoji: Drehende Herzen">